The essence of lying!

Lying is like an asset possessed by humans from thousand's of years. If you are bored, you can lie. If you want to escape a situation, you can lie. If you want to get rid of somebody, you can lie. If you want to hide your real emotions, you can lie. 

   " Say the right thing at the right time, hide your real emotions, smile because you are obliged to, laugh because you have to impress, and cry because you have to show... do all this everyday, and the world will say that you have grown up! "

Is our case this worse? Is HYPOCRISY really the proof of being grown up? Can't we be an adult and still behave like a child? 

And yet again, back to lying! 

The question here is that ..is lying really necessary? It seems we care for child as well as adult emotions too much nowadays. Why is it so? Hundreds of research papers are published on child psychology. I read many of them, and sadly I noticed 50% of them deal with the fact "How to pamper a child!" Our parents were never pampered so much, at least not by teaching them how to be hypocritical or in fact how to lie?! Nowadays child grooming has been forced to go totally on a different track! True that! 

   Often I have seen people lying, so as to not hurt the fellow one. The most annoying is that people nowadays lie also to their friends and family members. Don't you think that our society is becoming "pseudo" (fake)? And why are we cherishing the atmosphere created by such a society? 

No one seems to be bothered. No one seems to be interested.

But wait! Maybe they are bothered, they are interested!...but guess what, they LIE! 

 "Think as Game changers and you will succeed", they say. But for that, first stop lying and start thinking! 

Bis dann, till then,

Atharva